Am I Feminist???well yes...maybe

today a very good friend of mine came to my house and we were having a very interesting discussion....well this is one topic which am sure every girl at some point discusses...we were discussing marriage and a girl's life after that...yea u got it right!we were talking about some bloody MCP's who think that girl's should get into sarees soon after they are married and devote their life to them and their families...oh!god i hate such men who want their wives to sacrifice their wishes for da sake of his so called ego....what my point is- is da girl only getting married??da boy according to me i also getting married...so y is it always expected from da girl to leave her house whr she was born...whr she has her room,her own bed??well u will say tats how it works...fine i agree...but da boy will live in his own house,in his own room and offcourse with his parents and will expect his wife to think of his parents as her own...i can never agree on this point...both of them are enetring into a new life so they shud start their own family and compromise and adjustments should be from both sides..not from da girl only...da guy shud also take into her likings and dislikings.

well my friend is engaged nd her boyfriend like every other guy wants her to live with his parents after they get married and take in to their lifestyle...its always expected from da girls to forget her own family, her parents,all that she ever wanted in life till she got married offcourse and give in to her goddamn responsibilities as a wife,daughter-in-law and a mother..phew!!and till now in India in-laws specially mom-in-laws dont really feel their daughters-in-law as their daughters...but these men who have these idea that their parents are da best anyone can have leave their wives in da hands of such mum-in-law or better monster-in-law...lol...whether love marriage or arrange marriage hardly u will get to see a boy going against his mom for da sake of his wife no matter how wrong his mom is...am not saying all in-laws are bad and tat they are sheer terror but da numbers are no less also

but whatever it is i truely feel marriage is a life changing thing and this is applicable for both da boy and da girl so adjustments should be from both sides and all you girls marry a man and not a mam's boy who always ends up in his mam's lap nd lacks da courage to stand for his love....